Too often, we can misinterpret the responses we receive from others when most of the time, they have nothing to do with us at all…
If I appear passionate about something, it is not because I am trying to convince you, it is only because I care so deeply about it.
If I don’t recognize your pain, it is not because I do not care, it is probably because I have been blinded by my own pain.
If I seem to charge ahead, it is not that I am oblivious to the world around me, it is because my needs and desires are so great, when not met, I can become fearful and I must attempt to respond to them myself.
If I insist on my own way, it is not because I am selfish, it is because so many things are out of control in my life, I must control what I can.
If I don’t speak up or respond to your words, it does not mean I am not listening, it’s probably because I am an introvert and have used up my quota of words for the day.
If I insist on seeing you, it is only because you matter to me, time with you matters to me.
If I tell you “I love you”, treasure this. It is the most precious gift I have to give.
Carol Marchant Gibbs
Stories Changing Lives