Temporary Bystander

Whoever thought that we would be in quarantine for so long? 

It is in times such as these that we think about and appreciate more deeply those moments that came before. 

I adore my family and friends and miss them terribly. And though we have Skyped, Face Timed, Zoomed and called, it is just not enough for me. 

We are fortunate to live in the same town as our older son’s family and have been able to watch our grandchildren play…at a distance. But, it’s just not enough to be a bystander. I want to hug them and chase them in the yard, and read books with them as they sit with me. I miss that.

I want to hug my daughter-in -law and say “great job” for courageously homeschooling the three boys and chasing their two year old daughter in the process. The kids are so happy and that is a testimony to her efforts. 

I want to hug my son and say l am proud of the way he has stayed home and worked from there. He is protecting his family and loves every moment. 

I want to hug my son and son-in-law for pressing through and teaching their college courses on line. I am thankful they are practicing social distancing by not going to Cross Fit and socializing with their friends over social media only.  

I want to hug my niece who is on the front lines in the medical field selflessly seeing patients every day. She is a hero and so is my nephew and other niece who are serving as well. 

I want to hug our family members and friends who are willing to stay home for the sake of others. That expression of love speaks volumes to me. 

I do get to hug my husband! He has had my undivided attention and most of the time, I think he really enjoys that. I am thankful that we have each other. 

I know this has been a difficult time. It will be worth it in the end. The reunion with loved ones will come soon and it will be sweet. For me, it will require lots of hugs! 

Hang in there, everyone!!

Stay well and God bless, 

Carol Marchant Gibbs

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